POETS SALON
– 5/08/19
Hosted by Kath Abela Wilson
My Maltese mother grew up in Egypt, in an international community and spoke five languages. When I was in grade school in New York, she started weekly meetings in our home, gathering my friends together. We made things and donated to causes, often little bookmarks with poems that my father, a poet and journalist, taught me to make. Mother loved life, lived as long as she could, 95 years of inspiration and then:
my inheritance
her will
for peace~ Kath Abela
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Nicholas Klacsanzky
haka—
the wind offers
a song
*Haka is a Māori dance that is performed to welcome guests, or to acknowledge great achievements, occasions, or funerals.
We are all interconnected, both physically and metaphysically. When someone or something dies, who he or she was gets reinserted into nature. The nutrients and matter we leave behind might even end up as part of the food other people or things consume. People’s memories of us and the work we leave behind stays in the consciousness of others after we pass. No one really dies, and perhaps no one is ever born. It is just a transformation of existing matter and energy into another type of matter and energy.
whale vertebrae—
memories of father
fading to white
Love can keep memories only for so long. Luckily, I see my father more and more in myself. I am carrying him in my laugh, my poetry, my jokes, sense of adventure, yearning for unifying religions, desire to meditate.
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Grace Galton
All our sorrows, joys, tears and laughter will pass like clouds. I dedicate my work to my beloved husband, Ralph who brought so much beauty into my life.
after the funeral
all the dead stars
still shine
now I understand
the twinkle in his eyeanniversary…
early morning mist
blurring the view
or just a stinging in the
corners of my eyessliding
down the mountain
the sun on its way
to tomorrow
without youconcert in the park
a butterfly and a rose
swaying
do they know the band
is playing our tune?
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Carol Raisfeld
Missing her everyday, how I wish I could call. My daughter and I reminisce…so many beautiful moments to remember.
hibiscus
the color of mother’s lipstick
when she was young…
in full bloom, my daughter
wears the same hibiscus smileΟ
Echos
Mom’s melodic voice at night, “remember, sweet dreams always.” She only wanted us to be happy. During dinners we each made up jingles about our reheated leftovers with mom joining in. She was beautiful. I always wanted to look like her; long red hair and hazel eyes. Teasing, dad would kiss freckles on her nose.
Her memory seemed shorter each day as our names and faces faded in no special order. Late afternoon she swept spots of sunlight while humming a child’s song, a lullaby with no name.
At mom’s funeral one by one we spoke of her love… memories a good life brings.
outgoing tide
she blinked and life
drifted …
sand in a paper cup
pouring out dreamsΟ
two together
tiny shells overturn
in the tide
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Josette D’Orazio
The first time I was invited to Norman and Marilyn’s home I was taken with the bamboo forest they created in their yard. It was a lush and private place where one could sit and enjoy a tranquil setting.
bamboo garden
unintentionally neglected
shivers in the wind
the empty bench waits
for a new beginning
The backyard was a container garden full of potted plants. We shared a Chinese Elm. I believe Marilyn’s garden was an extension of herself. After her death the plants needed to find a new home and my husband and I adopted them. Though they are all healthy and wonderful in their own right, the tiny purple orchid is the plant that keeps Marilyn alive in my memory. It’s not a spectacular plant, it’s quite small, when I brought it to my home I wasn’t sure it would make it. With a little love and light it grows and blooms; it is an encouragement which keeps me thinking of my dear neighbor and nothing is really lost.
a tree brought us together
the fence was built around it
without expectation we created a bondwe tended that tree’s needs
holding much of your garden in my hands
those years are held in a small purple orchid
Together: Quotes and Credits
Nicholas Klacsanzky is a web content specialist by day, and a poet and writer by morning and night. He hosts the blog Haiku Commentary, which is an extension of his father’s work. His father, George Klacsanzky, created one of the first journals of haiku in America and was pivotal in spreading haiku in the Pacific Northwest. Nicholas lives in Kyiv, Ukraine with his wife and pug.
Grace Galton lives in the UK. She says: “Over the years since losing my beloved husband, Ralph, I have written many tanka for him. I holiday abroad quite a lot and each time I take him with me in my mind and discuss all the beautiful things I see with him, just as I used to when he was alive.”
Carol Raisfeld lives in Atlantic Beach, a barrier island close to New York City. Her hobbies include sailing, chess, sculpting, painting and boxing. She holds US and foreign design patents in interactive toy design. Her poetry, art and photography appear worldwide in print and online journals. Carol is a worldwide anthologized poet and winner of several international awards.
Josette D’Orazio lives in Pasadena, next door to the home of her artist-poet friend Marilyn Zammit and her husband, the renowned artist Norman Zammitt whose lives and friendship she honors with her poems and prose above. Marilyn, who frequently participated in Poets on Site in Pasadena, introduced Josette to the group. Josette attends weekly meetings, and has published her work in anthologies and journals. She publishes her cherita (a six line, lyrical story form) in the “cherita journal” published in Singapore and U.K. Josette says: “I am grateful to Marilyn for introducing me to Poets on Site it is yet another dimension of my
life that I will keep her in my memory.”
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Marilyn Zammitt was my mom’s cousin, and, as she and I liked to point out, we were “first cousins once removed.” I knew her all my life and saw her on occasion over the years I was growing up in Pasadena. She took beautiful photos of me and my three girl cousins in her backyard on two separate occasions when we were young.
We reconnected a few years ago when I moved back to LA after many years in Northern California and then New York City. She was so kind, generous, and interesting; and I enjoyed spending time with her at her home. We worked on a wikipedia article for Norman together for several months and published it online maybe a year before her passing. I knew she was sick, but I had no idea she’d go so quickly, and I long to see her or speak to her one more time. She lives in my heart now and the hearts of so many others. RIP Marilyn.
Dear Lucy,
Thank you so much for finding this post about Marilyn and writing here. I would love to talk to you some more. We are in touch with her family and I have her last photo in our gallery exhibit in our home. She used to come to our poetry meetings. Thank you for telling us about all you did together. I know how you feel. We miss her too, and all her positive sweet energy she shared so freely. My email is poetsonsite@gmail.com
Please write me there and we can decide what to do!
Love Kathabela
Dear Dianne thank you for this sibling tanka! And apprciatiion and inspiration. It is one we all can feel and identify with. I would love to feature your poems again on one of our themes
in 2020 for sure, or late 2019!. This is a perfect way to remind me and share!
Beautiful poems!
wearing mother’s scarf—
I can almost smell the scent
of her perfume
beautiful poems all!
tanka prompt: sibling
we fought
like cats and dogs
all those years ago
what I wouldn’t give
for a do over
Rest in peace, my troubled sister, Renee.