Jay Belloli (Photo – Suan Ching Tan)
Jay Belloli’s smile was one of the first presents I received on arrival in the US, in a city as complex and labyrinthine as Los Angeles.
By Toti O’Brien
Often meeting him during an art opening—either at the Armory Center for the Arts, which he directed for more than 20 years, or in a Pasadena Gallery, Pasadena museum and, of course, within a much large radius, as far as the West Side or San Pedro—I was always granted the warmest of greetings, and that wasn’t mere courtesy.
It was sheer humanity. His approach to artists like me was kind, direct, personal. When he looked at me in the eye, I knew he was actually seeing me. I was sure he remembered me and my work, no matter how busy and overwhelming his practice had grown over the years. Unassuming and humble, his incredible knowledge and expertise notwithstanding, he would meet me on a simple ground of mere friendship.
Quiet, soft-spoken, there was more in Jay Belloli’s gaze than he put into his measured words. His presence will be missed. His memory will live on.
E’ stato il più grande estimatore, esperto e conoscitore di una grandissima artista , amica di Peggy Guggenheim ,
una gigante dell’arte mondiale : CLAIRE FALKENSTEIN.
Thank you for your loving memorial for Jay, Toti. I had the same experience of feeling seen by him, even at busy openings. Every exchange with Jay was generous, genuine and loving. He was fully present, engaged and supportive. I am grateful for Jay’s encouragement and will miss him deeply.
I ran into Kim Abeles today. She told me of Jay’s passing. Very sad news. Jay was one of the most decent, genuine and caring people I have ever encountered in the art world. He will be sorely missed.
He was my best friend. I miss him terribly. Not only because of the art, but as one of the most insightful people I have met in my now long life.
JY was my absolute best friend We met and spoke every few days. I am so shocked. Still can say the word WAS.
He was the most REAL human ever. In every way. Heart. Brilliance. Magnificent.
What a loss.
Please call me if there is any meetings.
Much love
Rabbia Sukkarieh.
Jay was a sweet and compassionate human, a passionate supporter of the arts. He will be greatly missed!
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