Letter to Mom (from Daughter)

Here’s a simple, and meaningful, letter from a daughter to her deceased mother.

Dear Mama,

I keep thinking of all of these cool things I’d get you if you were here this Mother’s Day. I’d take you to eat out. I’d drag you to have your nails done since you never did experience the pleasure of a pedicure. We’d go for a movie or maybe I’d buy you tickets to a concert. Perhaps we’d even go away over night to some town that has really awesome thrift stores and just shop till we dropped.

Today I honored you by forcing myself to go to church, by not laying in the bed feeling sorry for myself, by showing true appreciation for the effort that my children and my husband made to make my day extra special, by bargain hunting for your grandson at the Goodwill Sunday Sale as you always did, like clockwork. I was ecological and economical by shopping used (I even refused a bag).

My husband asked me during church if I was okay and I said yes. And, momentarily forgetting why I might be sad, he said, “Aww, what’s the matter?” in a cheerful voice. I honored you by not being a bitch and snapping at him. Instead, I simply said, “It’s just a hard day.” With that, he put his strong arm around me and pulled me a little closer. I love that man.

After the Goodwill, I honored you by spending half an hour meticulously picking out this week’s library books for your grandchildren and then sharing an anecdote from my childhood with the librarian. I’m sure she didn’t care that you used to lie in bed and read library books to me every night (and the funnies you read on Sundays) but she showed great kindness by acting as if she cared.

Today I will continue to honor you by thanking God for the many Mother’s Days we did spend with one another and for the powerful and positive impact you had upon my life each and every day you lived.

Thank you for being there for me. Thank you for giving this whole Motherhood thing your all. I sure do appreciate it. And, as always, I miss you like crazy.

-Punkin

Source: Mandy, letterstomydeadmother.blogspot.com