Editor’s Note: This piece is adapted from a previously published article. It has been revised, updated, and expanded to reflect new information and provide additional context for today’s readers.
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We are afraid to care too much, for fear that the other person does not care at all.”
~ Eleanor Roosevelt
Here are seven simple tips on having a successful relationship.
By Rena Kurlander
1- Core values matter
Core values are the foundation of a strong relationship. When two people share important beliefs, goals, and values, they have a stronger connection and a better understanding of one another
2- Be polite
Kindness and politeness are essential in a healthy relationship. Small gestures of respect, appreciation, and consideration can make a big difference in how two people feel about each other.
3- Don’t rush into marriage
Enjoy life with your partner and take the time to truly know each other. A strong relationship grows through shared experiences, trust, and understanding.
4- Trust one another, it is essential
Trust is one of the most important keys to a lasting relationship. Believe in each other, be honest, and create a safe place where both people feel valued and respected..
5- Take turns with the give and take
A successful relationship requires balance. Share, support, and give as much as you receive. Both partners should feel that their needs and feelings matter.
6- Friendship is as important as romance
A loving relationship is also a friendship. Enjoying each other’s company, laughing together, and being there for one another creates a bond that goes beyond romance.
7- Communicate
Keep communication open between the two of you. Share your thoughts and feelings, listen with care, and never assume your partner knows how much they are appreciated.
And finally I leave you with this quote from Mother Theresa:
Intense love does not measure, it just gives.”
Enjoy life!
Rena Kurlander is a resident of the San Gabriel Valley. She has loved and been loved again, and she’s grateful for this third act of love in her life.
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